In life, we often hear some parents complaining about their children's disobedience, how to be awkward with their teachers, how to pay less attention during class, and how to grind homework. Recently, I also saw that the mother of a 5-year-old girl is also asking " the reason for the 5-year-old daughter's inattention ". In fact, the reason why the child is not attentive and develops bad attention habits is related to parent education and personal behavior Inseparable.
1. Parents fail to lead by example and fail to lead actively
Mom and dad like to watch TV in front of the TV, and the children will also watch TV while eating. They know that they will not be asked to do their homework at this time. After eating for an hour for a meal, parents will not have any opinions while watching TV. Because of this, children develop a habit of grinding, and when they are finished studying, they are always unable to concentrate and always think of other things in their hearts. Therefore, in order for children to develop good habits of attention, parents should set an example for their children from an early age.
2. Poor sleep habits
If the child has a habit of playing games and crickets before going to bed, playing too long will prevent the child from falling asleep peacefully, and the quality of sleep is not good, which will make the next day's study very unspirited, unable to concentrate on thinking about problems or doing homework. Irregular work schedules, parents return late or watch TV for a long time, and the habit of staying up late at home can also seriously affect the child's sleep time. Learning is based on mental work and consumes a lot of oxygen in the brain, so the child's schedule should be arranged reasonably Let children know when to play and when to learn, and develop a good habit of combining work and rest.
3. Sensory disorders
In recent years, more and more studies have found that sensory disorders are also a cause of children's inattention. Children with sensory disorders cannot adequately process and organize sensory information from various parts of the body, and thus cannot organize all aspects of the body's activities.
4. Impact of the external environment
The living environment of the child is too noisy. When the child is studying, he cannot do his homework quietly, or when the child is doing the homework, the parent always interrupts the child's progress suddenly. "How much has been done, how much homework has not been done?" It seems to be concerned about the child, but I don't know that I have disturbed the child, preventing him from focusing, and thinking about the problem is always interrupted.
Children's inattention can be improved through attention training, but it is inseparable from the support and guidance of parents. Parents can take their children to do some family games, and exercise attention during the game will not appear so boring and boring. The child is rebellious.
1. Fishing (Child age 3 ~ 6)
Give your child a toy fishing rod with a magnet on it. Parents help the child to attract the magnet to the small fish's mouth, then let the child pull the fishing rod to remove the small fish from the basin, and finally put the fish in a basket beside it. The parent helps the baby to take the fish off. Do it again and again. Then count how many fish were caught.
2. Find something
Method: Find something in the room, which can be a chair or a flower pot, placed about 60 cm in front of the child, let the child's eyes look straight ahead, blink naturally, focus on this object for about 15 minutes. During this time, pay close attention to your dedication. Then, let the child close his eyes and try to outline the image of the object in his mind. It should be described in as much detail as possible, and it is best to describe its characteristics in words. Then go over it again, and if there are errors, correct them.
With meditation, not only can you improve observation, concentration, but also memory and creativity.
3. Listen to the sound
Method: First prepare 5 to 10 different containers and fill them with water. During the game, parents use chopsticks to tap a container filled with water, and let the children listen to themselves to distinguish the sound level.
This game is mainly to train children's hearing. The hearing is the inner ear hearing organ receives sound wave stimulation, and then transmitted to the auditory center of the brainstem to identify the nature of the auditory information. When training hearing, children must concentrate on listening. Therefore, the child's attention is also exercised.
4. Read aloud
Method: Let your child read aloud
According to modern scientific research, 80% -90% of the energy in the brain is supplied by the ears, and sound waves can pass through the vagus nerve to the internal organs of the viscera. When reading aloud, mouth and eye movements together will strengthen the reflection intensity of the brain's language management center and improve people's ability to perceive language.
The 5-year-old daughter's inattention needs to be corrected and improved in time. Parents need to properly guide their children and take them to professional institutions for training. Attentive children are prone to success. In order for children to grow more confidently, parents must prepare a quiet living environment for their children, so that children can improve in small daily tasks.